9. Ambitious girls know that being tough and being emotional aren't mutually exclusive. Ambitious girls are strong, confident, and intelligent. They know how to handle themselves. But they're aware that that doesn't mean they can't be vulnerable or emotional. One of the reasons they feel comfortable dating is because they know how to be tough without feeling the need to apologize for having emotions.
有追求的女生明白,坚强和感性并不相互冲突.她们坚强,自信且理智,知道如何处理好自己的事情.但是她们也清楚,这些不代表她们不能有脆弱和感性的一面.她们坚强的同时,也不必为脆弱而受责备,这是她们舒适恋爱的原因之一.
10. A good conversation in their eyes doesn't revolve around how much money you make or how successful you are. They're more interested in hearing what makes you tick, what inspires you, what gets your blood flowing, and what you're passionate about.
在她们看来,良好的交流不必围绕着对方的金钱和成功.她们更在意对方的动力,灵感,能量和热情之所在.
11. They know that sometimes they have a hard time opening up in the beginning. They're used to being in control, so when they're not, it's a little disorienting. But they enjoy the challenge of trying to get better, so it's something they're always keen to work on.
在开始一段感情时,有时她们会觉得难以敞开心扉.因为她们习惯一切都在掌控之中,而爱情这件事却充满未知,所以她们会有些迷茫.但她们很享受自我完善的过程,并愿意为之全力以赴.
12. They won't ask you to choose between them and your other priorities, because they're too busy having priorities of their own.
她们不会逼你在爱情和其他重要事情之间做出选择,毕竟她们有太多重要事情来充实自己.
13. Ambitious girls are attracted to people who have goals and aspirations – people who want more than an average existence. They don't need you to be the CEO of a Fortune 500 or an insanely successful entrepreneur. They just want to know you care about something that matters and are willing to work for it.
有理想有抱负、不甘平庸的人会赢得这些女生的青睐.对方无需是财富500强公司的CEO,也不必是特别成功的企业家.她们只要了解,对方有自己在意的东西,并愿意为之奋斗就够了.
14. They're not going to wait forever. They'll let you know, one way or another, that they like you. They're never in a rush to jump into a relationship, but they're also practical about where they are in their lives and when it's time to move on. If you like them, do something about it.
她们可不会一直傻等.若是动心,她们一定会用某种方式表现出来.面对爱情,她们不会轻率莽撞就开始.同时,她们也很现实,知道自己处于人生的什么阶段,知道什么时候该放手向前.所以若对她们有好感,请有所行动.
15. They're less worried about a fairytale romance and more concerned with finding someone who will simply make them happy. They're not preoccupied with a huge diamond ring, an over-the-top wedding, and a ridiculous love story they can tell their friends. They just want to be with someone who will love them for who they are, and never ask them to stop following their dreams.
相比童话般的浪漫举动,她们更在意简单的快乐.她们并不痴迷于硕大的钻戒、奢华的婚礼或是可以向朋友炫耀的疯狂壮举.她们只求相守的那个人爱的是她们真实的样子,并永远支持她们的梦想.
